Am I Wrong

[ayesha]

Can someone please explain why is it so wrong that if I don't take my husband to court. We separated after 18 years still on good terms. But people are saying I should take him to court . I should get the house. But I wasn't the one started working at 16 and saved all that money. He did and people frown on me for that. Am I wrong for defending him by saying he earned it with his money. I just wanted to say I think that a lot of people out there abuse the courts and are greedy.

[The Cobra]

Take no advice from here Ayesha.....not because people aren`t trying to be helpful......but we don`t know you or your situation with everything that revolves around it, the good and the bad. Best advice is to talk to a lawyer.....all the best.

[Condor]

I should add... You are such a good and reasonable person... Just an observation as Cobra stated....

[STG]

just wish there were a lot more level headed and fair thinking people like yourself out there......instead all you get is it's all bout me and what can I get.....good luck to you and I wish you the best.....but like cobra said...speak with a lawyer....a pastor....and advisor....but most of all good luck

[SpaceCowboy]

I am with Condor on this one.....
I am sure that your X will finally realize that He has made a grave mistake by letting You go. My hat off to you young Lady.

[ayesha]

I like to thank everyone so far for your comments. I don't think I need a lawyer cause the house is his. Not to sound like a bitch I have my own money enough to survive . Like I said we're still on good terms . Even if we didn't part on good terms this who I am. Wish people would stop looking at me as I'm stupid. And property wise even though I paid for things they were gifts. So those were his. And I had gotten furniture from my brother cause he moved to another country. I have everything I need . I'm going to go to a pastor for advise and help . And again thank for all your comments . He's just fighting some demons. Hopefully he can beat them. It's a rough patch for the both of us . Thank you so much

[bigbadbrother]

You know all you can do is look in your heart and sit down and talk with your X . You never know what can come from two people having a reasonable conversation.

[ayesha]

Thank You for post .I hope we can work through this. We still talk I love him even after all these years. Even if I didn't care I still stick to my original opinion. Why should I be entitled something he worked for. Are family's are an issue . Plus things he is fighting. And things he has done. For better and worse I know who he was and can be. I tried to help but you can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped. He's in denial. When he figures that out.I'll be there . Thank you